“I don’t want to be married just to be married. I can’t think of anything lonelier than spending the rest of my life with someone I can’t talk to, or worse, someone I can’t be silent with!”
~ Mary Ann Shaffer, The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society.
*The above is true and I agree with it absolutely!
These are truths and beliefs that rule supreme for me.
In my opinion, I, Sandra C.V. Nwadi believes one of life’s greatest gifts is LOVE- and to love; to love yourself, to have the ability to be able to love and be loved, to be able to let one love you back, to choose to live each day with the one you CAN’T live without in life.
Indeed, to be with the one you can talk to, ‘talk’ in all that matters and all that does not matter, be silent and be both comfortable in the silence amazing.
Then again, perhaps, if lucky; favoured at least, to be ‘truly’ loved and be with one you love and you’re both in love, is ultimate.
So, if it’s not all of the above and a few other great beliefs not mentioned, if it isn’t all of the above and one goes ahead to be with another man or woman no matter the sweet, honey -coated , mahoosive advantages put before you is JUST the loneliest, shittiest, bullshit in life and as good as suicide or volcanic environments!
No reasonable and sane thinking being loves suicides or volcanoes either. I use reasonable and sane for all that it stands for and in the deep definitions or representations of it all.
I don’t like the two or support anyone going near them or thinking in those terms or getting involved in acts as good as those two terms.*
“Marrying for love may be a bit risky, but it is so honest that God can’t help but smile on it.” – Josh Billings (1818-1885) [Henry Wheeler Shaw] American Humorist